Masturbation: Solo Sex

According to definition, mastrubation means giving oneself pleasure by having orgasm/s through the stimulation of sexual organs. While most of them use their hands to climax, instruments like vibrators and dildos are also used for the same purpose. These imitate the movements of the hand and provide sexual pleasure.


We all are human beings and also sexual beings. It is normal to have sexual desires or have pent-up sexual energy within us. So, we masturbate, in order to release that energy. Both the sexes have claimed to have done it but it is reported more in males than in females. Most of us start masturbating at the time of puberty because of the hormonal changes taking place in our body as well as the curiosity to explore our body.

 Let’s read some curious facts... shall we?

• This statistics shouldn’t come as a surprise to us because it's already a known fact that women masturbate even though it’s not a well spoken topic  
• 53% of women use vibrators while they masturbate, and 17 % of men use vibrators for solo masturbating
• 3 out of 10 women like masturbation over sex because most of the women are in relationship
• Right now 7, 97,151 people are masturbating in the world. Damn it's so normal then why don’t we talk about it as freely as we do it?
• It helps our brain and body to relax – safer than tranquilizers, cheaper than alcohol and no side effects
• It gives a degree of relief from the physical discomforts many feel during periods
• It takes a woman 10 to 20 minutes to reach the finishing point and the pleasure or the "O" lasts for about 20 to 22 seconds

Men are known to discuss mastrubation as freely as they fart and burp around people. They discuss their sizes, how fast they climaxed, what material they watched and may other things. No offence but it is the truth like it or not.

Whereas in cases of women... ugh where do I even start from? Should I start from the puberty where we didn't know what was happening to us and why we were feeling like sexual? Or should I start from the time when we told our trustworthy people only to get ridiculous and strange looks, advises to stay "pure" and abstain from doing it? No.. I should start from the numerous times when men assumed that since I mastrubate I must be willing take anyone's dick inside me. Yes! that has happened to me quite a few times. Because in the history, there is no trace moreover women have been ignored considerably on the subject of self-love its a new and confusing thing for the patriarchal society to even consider. That's why it is still a sin for women and many of us females doesn't hesitate to preach that evil mentality.

Let us imagine a room (chill I'm not trying to mastrubate or help anyone to do) where 5 women are seated. They are from different age groups and fields.
W1: The other day I mastrubated and I felt so good and relaxed (strange glances exchanged except 2 3 women)                                                                                                     
W2: In what way did you mastrubate?                                                                                     
W1: Oh! I used a dildo that also a violet colour one.. I know its odd but I like the colour
W3: I even mastrubate when I have sex with my fiance coz that actually helps him to get me to orgasm quickly. He doesn't get tired and I get to have a good time. So, sorted! (smiles)     
W4: Haw! Isnt mastrubation a wrong deed? Arent you all ashamed of yourself? You all are so full of lust. Heaven is not a place for lusty creatures. You all should remain pure for your husbands. Its the prime duty of a woman.                                                                     
W5: The prime duty of any person is to keep oneself happy and there is no right or wrong thing in that. Mastrubation is healthy and is more enjoyable than having sex with someone. At least she is not dependent on someone for her own happiness. A true virtue of an independent woman. I must say. The brain feeds itself happy hormones and enables her to be the strong women she is. The large-scale taboo is because of us women. Since we have kept it under wraps, the view that it should be hidden has been formed. The moment when such things are talked about every chain is broken and another obstacle from women's paths are cleared out.

Many men irrespective of how twisted the world has become actually puts efforts and try to understand the complexities a woman go through. This post is to help them understand a bit more than they know.